Families of Portugal


The Portuguese are very temperamental people and their hot temper has become known all over the world. They can be jealous of their spouse even for any pillar, and jealousy can flare up even from scratch.

The Portuguese believe that it is better to be stupid and funny than to be the one to whom the woman gave the horns. As a result, women are especially careful when choosing interlocutors and, in general, in all their behavior. Although they do not differ in a meek character and are also prone to fits of jealousy.

A family for a Portuguese is not only a loved one nearby and adored children. They include, of course, their parents in the family, as well as all more or less close relatives, whose number, by and large, is simply impossible to count. All this huge family very often gathers for the most important holidays in life.

A non-working spouse is typical for Portuguese families. Portuguese women, of course, can work, but this is not necessary, because all financial issues must be solved only by a man. He alone is the main breadwinner who brings money home. However, staying at home, the woman is loaded with household chores.

The Portuguese are very clean, so the house is cleaned several times a week, as is the laundry. By the time the husband arrives from work, complete order should reign in the house, a hot and delicious dinner should be waiting for him on the table.

Despite the fact that a man performs the basic functions of the stronger sex in the house, everything that concerns the furniture of the house, which the Portuguese like to move from place to place, constantly changing the atmosphere in the house, before hammering a nail - this is where their functions can be completed.

As a result, Portuguese men are absolutely not adapted to fix plumbing, they just do not even think that they can solve minor problems on their own. In such cases, they always turn to real professionals.

The female half of Portuguese families are very close people and are ready to share the most intimate things. The daughter-in-law can talk very frankly with her mother-in-law on any topic, even those related to intimate life, without any problems, and the mother-in-law will always give not only good advice, but even offer her services, do everything to help in the problem that has occurred.

Meetings of relatives are always violent and noisy, a lot of emotions always spill out. These meetings are held as if the relatives had not seen each other for a very long time.

The Portuguese simply do not love their children. The love for children is simply endless here. Children have the same rights in a family as its adult members. They take part in all family events and celebrations; children of all ages must be present at all family councils.

The Portuguese never punish their children, it seems that the more a child screams, the more noise he makes and the more often he takes part in fights, the happier the parents are. They are not forbidden absolutely anything and pampered for any reason and, moreover, all absolutely family members.

No one will force children to go to bed and in the middle of the night you can see a child playing in the middle of the room and happy and happy parents next to him. The father takes an active part in raising children. They are not afraid of anything, they are not afraid of changing diapers and diapers, tedious feeding and the baby's screams at night.

The father can rise in the middle of the night at the sound of a crying baby and feed him or change his diaper. Despite the fact that the mother is on parental leave and that she does not work at all, a man can take parental leave at work in case of his illness, and he will be given leave without any further ado.

For the reason that the Portuguese treat children so reverently, they very late become independent and even when their hair is already turning gray, parents continue to consider them just small and inexperienced kids.

Parents take parting with their children very painfully, and when they are going to start their own families and leave for their home, the parents are sincere and cannot understand why the children do not want to stay in their parents' house. Even when the children do leave, the parents still continue to court them, they very often come to visit, and the children themselves constantly gather at their parents' house.

Just as they grow up, children study for a long time. Education in Portugal is very humane to those who do not want to study and one can sit out on one university course for as long as you want. Sometimes it happens that the Portuguese graduate from universities in 10 or 12 years, instead of the prescribed 6 years. However, admission to an ordinary university is not at all difficult to pass.

Their parents are of particular importance for the Portuguese, and even when they are no longer able to take care of themselves, the children will not leave them unattended. Virtually all Portuguese families take on the responsibility of caring for their elderly parents, instead of putting them in a nursing home.

Children are ready to endure all the old people's whims, weakness and weakness, constantly disappearing memory and hearing, the main thing is that parents feel the love of their children and know that they will always be under supervision and surrounded by warmth and comfort. Women who stay at home are willing to spend their time with their parents or with their husband's parents. Pensioners must be taken to the hairdresser and given a manicure.

In addition, in Portugal there are a lot of clubs in which retirees gather when their children are at work. In such clubs, everyone can choose an activity to their liking, for example, do embroidery or knitting, play board games, create various crafts and souvenirs from different materials with their own hands. These clubs provide an opportunity for Portuguese retirees to connect with their peers.


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