We all love, communicate with friends, relatives, colleagues at work, we also love to visit and celebrate holidays and birthdays with friends and family. The concept of a family can be very different for us, but basically we understand a family as a community of all people close to us.
Families in the Netherlands are closed cells, which include two spouses, their children and closest relatives and parents.
For society in the Netherlands, the family is of great importance and the fact that families keep apart means that they simply have a desire to pass on to their generation all family traditions and religious customs in their original form, in which they were from the very beginning of their history.
Women in the Netherlands are actively involved in feminist movements, but they still have not been able to ensure that their rights are equated with those of men. In work, women always occupy a lower position and receive a salary significantly lower than men working in the same place.
Most women have the status of housewives. The man, therefore, remains the head of the family, the main earner who must support his family, and the woman's business at this time, who remains at home, is to keep the house clean and tidy and raise children.
It is customary to spend all weekends and holidays in the Netherlands with your family, either go out of town or stay at home, but always only together. Neither spouse leaves the house alone for a weekend or vacation.
Parents' approach to raising children is different: fathers spend more time with their sons, and women, of course, love their daughters. However, the father contributes more to the upbringing by keeping the children sufficiently strict, although children are not punished in the Netherlands.
The education of children is of great importance. In the Netherlands, there is compulsory education for children in primary schools up to 16 years old, then children study in higher educational institutions.
In the Netherlands, there are a lot of different educational institutions that are aimed at different segments of the population, in addition, many teachers open their own private schools, where the level of knowledge acquisition is much higher, since an individual approach is applied to each child.
In addition, there are many schools in the Netherlands for people with different religions: these are Muslim, Catholic, Protestant and Jewish schools, where children are immediately taught to love and respect their religion and respect for traditions.
Education differs in three types, which include basic secondary education of four years, general secondary education, professional four-year and six-year pre-university, where you can choose one direction.
As a result of the fact that the Netherlands is dominated by a variety of religious trends, each group keeps somewhat separate, and each group has its own traditions and customs, which they tremblingly preserve and honor.
Mixed marriages also happen, but this is very rare, mainly the inhabitants of the Netherlands are trying to find a mate from their ethnic group and the same stratum of the population.
Parents usually help young families to purchase a separate home or arrange a new home for them as a wedding gift, equipping it with everything they need. It is very rare to find a family in the Netherlands that consists of parents and their adult children.
Young people are trying to quickly leave the parental home and start their own independent life. However, even in this case, children acquire housing close to their parents' home so that they can always come to visit or help their relatives and friends.
Family relations between spouses in the Netherlands, as mentioned above, are complex, spouses are not equal to each other, each of them performs its own functions in family relations.
A man stands on a step higher than a woman and women have to put up with this, because, after all, a woman is the keeper of the hearth, who must always carefully guard the warmth and love in the house, and maintain mutual understanding between all family members.
The daughter-in-law and mother-in-law do not have a very close relationship, as the mother-in-law constantly monitors how well her son's wife is managing the household, how she is raising children and how she treats her beloved son. As a result, a woman is always under the vigilant control of either her husband or mother-in-law.
However, in other cases, the relationship between husband and wife in the Netherlands is quite good, the husband can arrange a pleasant evening for his wife, a romantic trip to a restaurant or please her with a nice gift.
He also shows his love in every possible way, although it cannot be said that men in the Netherlands are very emotional. They try to restrain their feelings, just like women.
The people of the Netherlands are very hospitable and always welcome guests. In the Netherlands, it is customary to treat guests with the best food and drink. Meetings with friends are always held in a warm and friendly atmosphere. In addition, very often such meetings with friends can take place in cafes or restaurants.
However, due to the fact that a man in a family has to work alone and earn money for the whole family, such walks to restaurants and other institutions are very rare, you have to save and spend money on things that are more important for the family than on such expensive walks.
Home holidays in the Netherlands are also not very luxurious, the main focus is on major religious holidays, which are enough for every religion. Then, in every family, real feasts are arranged, at which the traditions inherent in this or that religion are performed.
Children should also take an active part in all religious holidays in order to better understand their meaning for the family. Children may not be taken to home holidays so that they do not get confused, but religion means a lot to the Dutch, so every family member should be present.