Any girl and woman wants to have a close person, a man, by her side. Just what if he doesn't pay attention to you? And what should this chosen one be like?
I must say that the needs of a woman change with age. In youth, you want to see more romance, and in adulthood you need stability and reliability.
Everyone grows up at different times, usually at the age of 26-27 people change their worldview and values. There is no universal recipe in this regard, there are just some simple tips to help charm the guy you like.
Give up templates. Have you read a book with a bunch of specific tips or did you write them down under the dictation of your friends? This will not work. What worked for you with your previous boyfriend may not work in the current situation. The current adoration will be very different. That is why it is worth giving up some standard developments. Even twins can have different tastes and personalities, not to mention those who originally grew up in different families and have different upbringing conditions. It is necessary to observe the guy, study his habits and character, hobbies, then it will become better to understand how and how to win him. It is worth paying attention to his friends, to communication with them. Does the guy want to be a central figure in his circle or is he trying to be in the background, does he have a strong opinion of his own, or is he influenced by others? Having understood what kind of person he is, you can then find out how you can interest him and make him fall in love with you.
Be yourself. Those who have known the guy for a long time will probably want to copy the demeanor and style of his former girlfriends. Since he was with them, it means that something seemed interesting to him. This behavior is notoriously losing. Perhaps at some point and will be able to attract the attention of the guy and fall in love with himself. But after all, his previous relationship ended, which means that something in them did not suit the young man. Perhaps now he is looking for a completely different girl, a real one. And you just decided to imitate someone else. And an attempt to copy someone else's behavior can only speak of hidden psychological complexes and insecurity. If there is confidence in the ability to win a guy by imitating another personality, then it is worth postponing such grandiose plans and first start improving your personal life.
Be an interesting person. Answer honestly, would you fall in love with yourself? What is it about you that makes you different from other girls? You should not win points by studying abstruse subjects, in order to become an interesting interlocutor, just openness to communication and versatile views are enough. A beautiful and mysterious smile will only work on a first date, but how long will it last for a relationship? The guy will sooner or later want to talk to you. If a girl is only interested in jewelry and cosmetics, then how strong will her relationship be?
Give your guy the opportunity to take care of you. It is known that guys love to feel like heroes, you should not deny them the pleasure of being such. Girls need to periodically ask for help, emphasizing that only a guy can solve a difficult situation. And the gratitude must be sincere. At the same time, it is important to feel the line beyond which a fragile and defenseless girl becomes boring and demanding.
Learn to take care of him. It is necessary to catch special moments when to give a guy the opportunity to take care of himself and when it is necessary to take care of him herself. Let it be just a cup of tea or coffee in cold weather or a glass of cool water in hot weather. We are talking about simple little things, but they will let the guy know that someone needs him and cares about him. Do not be afraid that he will manipulate you, suddenly feeling interest in himself. Those who strive to behave so-so do not need special reasons. Normal guys will appreciate that there is a girl who is ready to take care of him herself, and not just waiting for gifts.
Comfort his pride. Every guy, deep in his soul, considers himself the most beautiful, the best and the smartest, the most successful and attractive. To make him fall in love with yourself, you need to play on this and amuse his pride? Why not ask about muscle building workout recipes? But do not praise him directly, it is worth emphasizing that you respect people with perseverance and willpower who achieve such results. So it will be possible to compliment his appearance and character and not flatter openly and humiliatingly. If a guy is a born leader, then it is worth celebrating his convincing performances, agreeing with his argumentation. Again, it should be noted that it is important to feel the line and not cross the line that separates sincere approval from flattery. Excessive activity in this regard can lead to a loss of respect from the guy.
Show interest in his hobby. People try to communicate with those who are interested in them themselves. Even if a guy is fixated on football or hockey, which the girl is completely incomprehensible, it is worth trying to show interest in this issue. For example, why not simply ask which team is playing in what form, what are their chances of success in a given match, and what is their position in the championship.
Show your interest in him. Those who want to interest a guy with themselves should not sit and wait for him to come up. You should at least occasionally smile at him and express signs of attention on a verbal and non-verbal level. It is known that men are "hunters" by nature, nevertheless, they are still not ready to waste their energy on the one that does not show any interest in them.
You can't be annoying. Constantly being in front of a guy's eyes is also a weapon, but how effective is it? It would be a mistake to think that such behavior will arouse interest in yourself. From the outside it will seem pathetic and stupid. Feigned laughter and inappropriate harassment, if they attract attention, then clearly with negative consequences. The guy will immediately try to get rid of the Velcro. The girl must become elusive for him. The guy himself should feel that he lacks the company of this friend.
Be feminine and take care of your appearance. It is true that men love with their eyes. You should not radically change your appearance, otherwise you will simply not be recognized with a new hair color, extended eyelashes and unnatural thinness. But you shouldn't forget about your appearance either. Usually guys are poorly versed in modern fashion trends, but they will definitely define what is awful or beautiful. You should not adjust yourself to someone else's standards and mindlessly follow the advice of designers. Both greasy hair and torn stockings can herald a new fashion trend. If a girl does not yet know exactly what her own image should be, but she is sure that romance in clothes is not hers, then she should pay attention to the French style. Its main leitmotifs are beauty, elegance and femininity without sacrificing comfort. If a girl in an ultra-fashionable outfit feels uncomfortable and insecure because of poorly selected shoes and clothes, then what kind of conquest of the guy can we talk about?
Build his self-esteem and self-confidence. Everyone has situations in their life that can shake our self-confidence. In order to attract a guy to yourself, at such moments you need to support him, not let him lose faith in his abilities because of an unfortunate situation. You cannot shift his blame onto someone else, you just need to let him know that you believe in him and that it is in his power to fix everything. And when everything really works out, he will remember who was next to him at a difficult moment.
Be positive. Nobody likes bores, but a constant smile on your face will begin to raise doubts about sincerity. You just have to try not to show people your bad mood. No one is to blame because you did not get enough sleep and trampled your feet in public transport. If you feel that the irritation overwhelms you, and there is no more strength to hold back, then it is better to immediately admit that you are in a bad mood and a bad day. It will not hurt to apologize for the possible tediousness. It is worth learning to admit your imperfection, but at the same time maintain behavior within the bounds of decency, without burdening your friends with your problems. Such qualities will distinguish a girl from others and attract a guy to her.
Like his friends. In any war, you cannot do without allies. In the business of conquering a guy, his friends can become such. They should be on your side, not against. If you manage to win their sympathy, this will be the first step towards the guy's heart. After all, his friends can both draw his attention to you and give a positive recommendation. This will greatly facilitate the task. Therefore, you need to be nice to the friends of the guy you like. But if these guys do not inspire confidence and affection for themselves, then it is worth considering. Are you ready to constantly communicate with them in the future? And who is the chosen one himself, rotating in such a company? It might be worth studying it better. No wonder they say that you can find out about a person by his friends.
Be his "mirror". There is a well-known psychological trick that allows you to win over strangers. In "mirroring" there is nothing of antics and imitation. It is about repeating gestures, facial expressions, movement, body position of the interlocutor during communication. As a result, he will subconsciously feel the community of interests with the person, closeness to him, and the features of mutual understanding. Any girl probably repeats the movements and gestures of her friends. This is how mutual sympathy and respect work physically. And it works on guys too. By themselves, the techniques of "mirroring" will not be able to win the heart, but together with other feminine tricks may well lead to the desired result.
Reread the horoscope. Not everyone believes in horoscopes. But even skeptics who do not trust the stars, it is still sometimes worth heeding their advice. It has been proven that people born at certain times have similar traits. Why not consider the peculiarities of the zodiac sign on your way to winning a guy's heart?