The question "How to meet a guy?" very relevant for many girls. How do you meet a young man?
First, you need to carefully prepare for an acquaintance. A healthy lifestyle is in vogue now, and the centimeters at the waist are still important. Gym is a good choice. As for centimeters at the waist, reaching the cherished 90-60-90 is not at all necessary, the frightening thinness has ceased to be so fashionable.
Such female mysteries as makeup, manicure, pedicure will help you always be ready to meet a nice guy. Keep track of your appearance, study fashion trends. You must look stylish in all circumstances.
Particular attention should be paid to the hairstyle. Are the advertised shampoos not as effective as they seemed on the TV screen? So this is advertising. Apply balms with shine, use hair masks, and when you leave the house it will not hurt to spray your favorite perfume on your hair.
A terrible force is female beauty, this "tool" must be used one hundred percent. After you get yourself in shape and look stunning, it's time to think about how to meet and where. Where to go out? Where there are many men. Approaching the search for a betrothed very globally, you can even think about changing jobs. For example, having received a job in a men's clothing store or a computer store, you will always be surrounded by men.
Naturally, office romances are far from being positive in all aspects; you should not overdo it. But thanks to the attention of men, your self-esteem will increase for sure. You will feel that you are desirable and attractive and thus will attract even more masculine looks.
In the event that a job change is considered by you as something completely unrealistic, then at least choose a new route for yourself from home to work and from work home. Preference should be given to places where there is a large concentration of the male population. In your free time, go to a sports club, a disco, a restaurant. Maybe sign up for a driving course?
As for discos, it won't be so difficult to meet a handsome guy, but finding a life partner there is a more difficult question. Although anything happens in life. If the young man offering to meet you at least sympathizes with you in something, then in no case refuse to meet him.
It may not seem romantic to you to get to know each other on public transport. What if fate has prepared a meeting for you in a minibus or a bus? Smile at the young man inviting you to meet. Finally, remember the famous film "Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears". As they say, the tale is a lie, but there is a hint in it.
Take the initiative yourself. Don't be shy about it. What could be the initiative? For example, a penetrating gaze or a smile. In no case should you take a closed position: cross your arms on your chest. This posture intuitively shows others that you are closed even to communication. But you can wink at the guy, because the young man may be waiting for your signal allowing him to get to know you.
Decide on such a question as: "Who do I want to meet?" A prince on a white horse? Understand that this is just a childhood dream. In one person, most likely, they will not be able to fit all those positive qualities that you would like to see in your chosen one. There are no ideal men. It is not worth building illusions to the contrary. Look at yourself from the outside. Or maybe you also have some set of shortcomings? And yet, choose the man you think is right for you.
When you meet a guy, another problem arises: during dating, how to behave. Simple psychological tricks can help you with this. Duplicate his gestures (but imperceptibly for the guy), use words from the vocabulary of the young man. Listen carefully to what he says, be amazed at his merits. The latter is especially important, because a man should feel his importance and appear erudite and strong in front of a woman.
Touch the young man (do it as if by accident). See how he reacts to touch. It is at this moment that a spark may arise, which will play a significant role in forging further relationships. Phone swap is the decisive outcome of the first meeting, but don't ask for the phone number yourself. This initiative must come from a man.
Do not get hung up on waiting to meet the guy of your dreams, because, as often happens, you will meet at the moment when you least expect her. But you must be ready for this meeting.
Summing up, I would like to warn you against the following mistakes:
1. When meeting, show your interest, but do not flirt with a guy from the first minute.
2. Take your time to start the conversation first. When you meet, you do not need to glance at your watch too often.
3. Take your time. Haste is a very common mistake when dating. The call "Now or never!" not suitable for this case.
4. If you like a young man, why ignore his views?
5. Telling your friends everything about acquaintance does not always turn out well. The guy can find out about this in some way: he will regard this gossip as a prank.