Nowadays, acquaintance through the Internet is becoming more and more popular. This method of dating is especially suitable for girls and guys with a shy character. But in general, it suits everyone, because there are a great many profiles posted on dating sites, people of different characters and temperaments want to meet.
But is real acquaintance possible via the Internet? An acquaintance, which may lead to a more serious relationship? Yes! Is it possible. The following tips will help you with this.
Find a good photo. The first thing a young man will look at is your photograph, your business card. The main photo should show your best side, as well as everyone else. And the more good photos you upload, the better. It is not very desirable to use photographs taken in the studio as the main photographs. They are undoubtedly good, but it will be better if you choose a good natural photo. It is good if the photos are varied: for example, full-length, portrait, in a swimsuit, in winter clothes, etc.
Correctly fill in the form about yourself. Dating sites offer a huge number of questionnaires to fill out. Somewhere you need to write about yourself in words, somewhere you just need to check the boxes. Give only the most necessary information about yourself. Indicate age, some characteristics of appearance, place of residence, you can also fill in the fields related to hobbies and education. Of course, don't forget to write down who you are looking for. It can be both a husband and a lover. As for other items on the questionnaire, such as attitudes towards alcohol and smoking, in general, it is absolutely unnecessary. I do not read all of them, and whoever reads them can close the questionnaire only because something is wrong there. In addition, a woman should keep some mystery and mystery for a man.
You should not drag out on-line correspondence. Realizing that you are mutually interested in communication, you must finish it on the site as soon as possible and transfer it into real life. Otherwise, the correspondence over the Internet can take so long that it will be doomed to gradual fading.
Try talking to the guy you like on the phone. The voice is an important informant about a person. You can immediately reject the candidacy of the chosen one if, for example, he speaks foul language. But it is also not recommended to make hasty decisions. You need to reject only those who do not suit you at all. The first meeting will resolve many other issues. If you like talking to a man on the phone, you still can't tell him everything about your life. The best option would be to listen to him, ask him about everything that interests you. It is most preferable to keep the mask of a mysterious stranger.
Pay attention to the first date. It is this that is the key to your future relationship. The first impression is very significant. It is difficult to change it. Therefore, the date should be enjoyable for both you and the young man. Let your first date be a romantic evening. Don't turn it into a kind of interrogation. You can flirt, you can tell a little about yourself, you need to show a sincere interest in the young man.
You need to leave on time. And this is very important. A protracted meeting, a stalled conversation will not lead to anything good. Do not allow the arisen interest in each other to gradually decline. Prevent the situation when you and he will get a little bored and you will not know what to do in this case. There is no need to delay the first meeting. When should you leave? It's simple. At the peak of the young man's interest in you. In this case, the guy will want and wait for the next meeting, will strive to see you again. The duration of the first date should not exceed one and a half hours. You still have nothing to talk about for hours, because you just got to know each other. So, it's very important to get out of the first date on time.
Create intrigue. A man always seeks to solve the riddle of a woman. Do not be a "read book", because this can quickly cause a man to lose interest in you. Do not offer a young man his whole life as if on a silver platter. Tell him the most interesting (in no way you should talk about any suffering), the most intriguing moments from your life. And, as mentioned above, listen to your interlocutor, become a good listener. It is always important for a man to see the interest in his personality on the part of the opposite sex.
These rules (or tips) are pretty simple. But by following them, you can find the man of your dreams on the vast expanses of the Internet.
The first meeting after chatting on the Internet is, in fact, the second meeting. Both the guy and the girl know practically nothing about each other yet. Remember that correspondence over the Internet most often resembles communication under some mask.
Sitting at the monitor is always much easier to communicate than in real life. Be prepared for this and follow the simple rules described above. Good luck will smile at you!